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I find it distressing when I talk to women (not saying men don't do this as well, but it seems much more prevailant in women) amd they are making themselves crazy over a man or sometimes more than one man.

I remember my Aunt talking about being part of the feminist movement in the early 70's who would get crazy over my mother who had to have a man in her at all times. Without a man my mother was not OK...what did my mother get for accepting any man in her life? A man that was verbally and physically abusive and one that molested both of her daughters. I have to say, there is no amount of anything that anyone could give me that would be worth that. Where is mom today? She has lost both of her daughters because we refused to be around the man that stole so much from us. There is no way that I will ever subject myself or my child to her; she has had contact with my daughter in any way and has never so much as seen her from afar. My mother now lives with my younger brother and she is dependant on him as the man that she accepted no matter what he did, obviously did not accept her for life. She was miserable with him for almost 30 years and now my brother wants to get married and get a home with his future wife...sorry kids but moving mom in with you and a new marriage is a very bad idea and my brother knows this. He is trying to find a place that she can live, but she doesn't work and no real source of income. She is nearing the age of retirement with zero retirement because the man that she choose couldn't or wouldn't hold a job, so he also has no retirement coming and if he did his WIFE would get the money anyway. Yes, he was still married to his first wife and never divorced.

Before you decide you MUST have a man in your life ask yourself this question: Do I want whatever comes along or am I willing to be on my own until the "right" person comes along?

Never ever rely on someone else for your own worth because in the end you won't have much self worth left.

Any man will not do!

Are you constantly worrying about your significant other cheating? Do you spend the time in front of your checkbook just knowing that you will never have enough money to pay all your bills on time? Well guess what? If that is what you spend your time thinking about then that is exactly what is going to happen.

The Law Of Attraction does not just work for the good things in your life it also works with those negative thoughts. The more I worry about money, the more I have to worry about, when I simply step back and let the Universe handle it, KNOWING it will be handled, money shows up in some of the most amazing ways.

Ask yourself what are you putting out there to the Universe, because remember it doesn't know the difference between a positive and a negative thought. Make changes as needed and watch miracles occur every single day in your life.

OK, the title may seem misleading on some level as well all that I do NOT do spells, I don't subscribe to them and I am firm believer that everything we need comes from within.

So what is my magical love spell? You must follow the next steps to the letter:

1. Love yourself unconditionally: If you don't love yourself; how can you ask someone else to love you?

2. KNOW that you are worthy of true and honest love from others.

3. Give yourself permission to love and be loved.

4. Give yourself a great big hug, because you are LOVED!

If you look closely you can see good sized orbs

This morning I pulled a Goddess card and I had to smile when I pulled Aphrodite. I have really been trying to invoke Aphrodite a lot more these days and I can say that the temperature has gone up quite a bit in my little corner of the world.

Almost a year, my life went into crisis mode and honestly, it began long before that when my husband was deployed to Iraq. I became so busy being a soldier's wife and shutting down the sexual energy as infidelity is NOT something I subscribe to in my life, especially when the spouse is in the middle of a combat zone. Fourteen months is a long time so shutting OFF my sexual energy seemed to be the safest thing to do. No, I didn't wake up one day and say "Oh, I am going to shut off all of my sexual energy." but by instinct and self preservation that is what occured.

When my husband returned we found ourselves struggling to make ends meet, fighting for custody of his child, dealing with a PTSD and eventually we seperated. Again, the sexual energy had no use in my lif or so I thought.

A few months ago, I looked in the mirror and noticed that my skin looked like garbage, the spark in my eye was gone and my zest for life was in the toilet. Then I heard a radio show that talked up turning up the sexual/femine energy. "Oh, I can't do that." I thought to myself. "People will think I am a slut."

Turning up your sexual/femine energy does not mean you go out and sleep with the first person that comes along, nor does it require inappropriate behavior. It means OWNING your power as woman. It means being confident within your own skin and your own sexuality. It means feeling good about YOU!

Some small steps to opening up and letting your Goddess flow. Remember, you are doing this for YOU and not to attract a lover (though if you are looking to attract a lover, this certainly won't hurt a thing).

1. Get out of those sweats! Put on something that makes you feel nice.

2. Put on some sensual music and dance around the kitchen if that is the only place you have to move but MOVE your body.

3. Do your hair, nails, make-up or even take a day and go to a spa if you have the means. Even if all you are doing is hanging around the house, look good for yourself, so when you pass that mirror, you can see something that make you feel good about you.

4. Exercise, get the heart pumping, the blood flowing and just feel good about yourself, even if it's just a short walk, do something that feels good.

5. Remember no matter your age, your weight, your body type or any other stupid thing that society puts on women, you ARE a Goddess and you are beautiful.



Love And Light

As I sat quietly in my home last night, I wrote out my intentions for the coming year and settled in for some silliness with friends across the country (online)at midnight. I was happy to see 2007 go, while it holds some wonderful memories and the joy of new friendships and many other beautiful moments, it had been a very hard for me and I am looking forward to 2008 and all that is holds.

I refuse to play dodge the drunk on New Years Eve and haven't going out in many years to celebrate the holiday. Spending it with other friends online and a glass of cabernet (which I never ended up drinking) sounded just about right to me.

As the New Year rang in here on the East Coast, one of the ladies in my little chat group started to play some music (she has a way to play it so we can all listen through winamp) and I decided it would be fun to pull some cards for everyone. Everyone got one card and my Goddess deck was the one that felt right. I pulled one at a time and gave a quick reading based on what was coming to me. The last person I was pulling a card for happened to be a dear lady who is spending her first holiday season without her beloved husband as he passed away over the summer.

When I pulled the "True Love" card for her, I caught my breath. No way, was I telling her that I pulled that card, this would only upset her! Before I could put the card back and reshuffle, I got a strong and resounding "NO! Tell her!" Ummmmm excuse me? That did not come from me, who the heck is that. I listened and held my breath as I typed out what I had and then suddenly, I started to get images and messages flooding in. It was her husband and he sure had plenty to say. Mind you, I have never claimed to be a medium and to be honest, I have been a bit afraid of connecting with those on the other side but I recently had a couple of people convince me that I needed to allow the messages if they made the choice to come to me. I made it very clear upon that decision that I would not accept messages in a way that scares me in anyway. DO NOT put a walking, talking spirit in front of me because I am running out of the house screaming, bet on it! This came to me in much of the same way that I do everyday readings but I felt a very strong energy all around me and goodness this man wasn't letting go until I got his message to his love. When all was said and done, my friend was so happy and had been given a great deal of confirmation that this was real. I was crying. I know things happen for a reason but I could feel this man's love for her and it broke my heart. Sometimes, even with good reason, death seems so unfair. As I felt him leave, Barry White started piping through the music player. My friend said "We always sang that song to one another!" One more validation that he was with her on this New Year's Eve and one more reason for me to sit there with my mouth hanging wide open. Why this man decided to contact his wife through me is beyond me but I had to thank them both when all was said and done for allowing me to share in something so wonderful. While she felt I had given her a gift, I felt like the one who had been given the gift, so in the end, this man made two women very happy last night.

Just an added note: I have no idea how I am doing this, I am just beginning on this journey of communicating with the other side, I have no clue how it happens and even less clue of how or why the choose to come to me. Please do not call me, asking for medium services because this is not something I know HOW to do, it happens when it happen and at this point I have no way of controlling that. Just know that when someone you love needs to get through they will find a way if you are paying attention.



Love And Light

My $1.00 garage sale deal

For those who have read my blog in the past you know I pick up a few extra dollars by writing about products, etc..
I do this by going to payperpost.com and finding different websites and products that I think are worth talking about and then I write about them in my blog.
Let me tell you the extra money is always good! There are some who are making several hundred dollars a month doing this. I haven't been quite as dedicated to my blog as I would have liked to have been during my move or I could have had some kind of money coming in just about every single day ranging from just a couple of dollars to a couple of hundred based on my blogs ranking and what ad's I choose to promote.
Now, that I am on my own without a second income payperpost is going to become my new best friend because let me tell you starting over with nothing is EXPENSIVE.
Why not make some extra cash for a few minutes (as in less than 10 minutes if you type fast) work?
If you are ready to start posting ads on blogs then check out payperpost.com
I am doing just that right this minute. All you need is a paypal account, a blog that is more than 90 days old and a few minutes. There is nothing hidden, this works exactly as I am telling you. No fees to you, no crazy forms, etc.. just blog about products and websites.

Oh yeah...you usually have to put this little box on your blog when you do blog about a product.

If you can copy and paste, you can do it!

Finally I have my apartment and DSL!!!!! I'll be posting more often now that I am once again connected with the world. This is what my backyard looks like. Haven't met the resident black bear yet but the bull frog sings me to sleep every night.